We have all tried to follow those sex articles that describe elaborate positions without the use of detailed pictures or photographs. It is simply impossible. There is no easy way to picture "Mount your man at a 34 degree angle, with your shins perpendicular to his body. Place on hand on your hip, and one hand on his knee for support." Instructional sex videos are helpful in making these complicated positions clear. Following their examples will still only bring some degree of extra pleasure.
But what these instructional sex videos don't tell you is that you have to transition from each position smoothly. Going from the Crippled Spider to the Inverted Pretzel is no easy task. Being unpredictable with new and exciting sex positions is fun, but it takes the natural essence out of the act. For the most passion, you need to keep some regular positions in your routine.
How To Transition To The Next Position
You need to move on to the next position as quickly and smoothly as possible. It should be done in a few swift movements. Do not plan out your actions, just improvise with whatever you have in the room. If you must made some plans, make them seem spontaneous. Take a chair to give your partner some support in a different way.
Sometimes, new sex positions are discovered while changing to new ones. Try to move to a different part of the room without letting go of your partner, while still in penetration. Take it to the dresser, to the floor, to the closet, in front of the mirror – stay creative.
Add Your Own Passion
If you're in love with your sex partner, anything goes. You can express yourself in what you do before, during, and after sex. The way you act in bed with a person is a reflection of your relationship. Make it really count by setting the atmosphere and making the most of your time alone.
The Other Kinds Of Sex
Sex videos will rarely tell you how to have make-up sex. They will not tell you about angry sex. While you should resolve your problems and avoid going to bed angry, some problems are best solved with a good hot love sesh. Disagreements over money and the kids need to be compromised. But little issues over jealousy call for some time in bed.
Make your own sex videos by setting up a video camera in your bedroom. You can learn a lot by watching how you perform. Many couples enjoy the eroticism of being watched by the camera. Naturally, it is important to trust that the video will not be released into the wrong hands.
Personal expression is essential in any sexual relationship. Use creativity to make even missionary position a rich sensual experience. You can learn the right moves, but when you make sex personal, you and your partner will enjoy it so much more.