There is no certain script or line that will work with every woman. But there are certain things a guy can say to bring a woman closer to him and let her know she is loved. Only say things that you really, really mean, and do not feel as though you have to replicate the actions of the guys in the movies or relationships around you. Your relationship should be a partnership with a relaxed balance of give and take.
There are 7 things your girlfriend wants to hear to bring your relationship to the next level. Try saying them when you are ready, relaxed, and sure that you mean them. They are up to your own interpretation; talk to her like you would anyone else, but don't forget to make her feel special.
- "What are you up to?" Asking her how she is doing is nice, but it's too predictable and boring. If you are actually interesting in what she is doing, she will know that you want to get to know her more and more each day.

- "I missed you." She wants to know that you really do notice when she's gone. If you want her to realize that you belong together and that you want to be there for her, you need to let her know that you really do think about being with her.
- "Remember that time…" Bringing up something you have done in the past will remind her of the good times you have had with her. But be careful – a relationship cannot rely on the past. Making new memories will build the relationship.
- "You were the prettiest girl in the room." Talk about that moment when you first met, and what was going through your head. In return, she might tell you just what first attracted her to you.
- "You're my best friend." Being in a relationship with your best friend is the best way to go. You should be able to talk to her about anything as time goes on. There is a certain intimacy about having a best friend, and if you choose her over any of your buddies, she'll be all yours.
- "You can depend on me." Making promises and fulfilling them will give her a sense of security. Never make promises you can't keep, and let her know as soon as possible if you have to break your date.
- "I love you." But you should be able to say it because you want to, not because you think it will improve your relationship. Say it too soon, and it could end the relationship.
The most important thing to understand is that words will not make any relationship work. The time you spend with her will help you decide how serious you want to take your relationship. Each partner needs to be on the same page and want the same thing out of the relationship. A positive attitude and an honest passion will keep her confident and content in your arms.