If you’ve got a girlfriend or a wife, you’re probably a pretty big fan of seeing her naked. Her body might not be perfect, but that doesn’t mean you don’t love looking at it whenever you get the chance to do so. Yet your lady probably feels like her body has room for improvement, and that can make her feel nervous when it’s time to remove her clothes and get down to business. The last thing you want is for her to be too distracted by her body issues to enjoy sex with you, so you need to help make sure she feels beautiful.
It may seem silly to guys that so many women are so fretful over their appearance. Take a look around you, though—women are bombarded with images of impeccable looking actresses and models every day. Magazines are filled with photos of beautiful women who’ve been airbrushed to look even more beautiful. Actresses in movies have entire teams of people who drill them at the gym, cook them healthy food, dress them, make-up them, perfectly style their hair, and then make sure they’re lit amazingly when the camera starts rolling. Women see all of this and feel that they’ll never be able to measure up.
When your girlfriend or wife is feeling down on her body, and it comes time to bare it all for sex, it can be hard for her not to let her anxieties about her appearance keep her from feeling sexy. This is why it’s so important for you to give your gal positive reinforcement. Make sure that she knows just how beautiful and sexy you think she really is.
Tell her what you love about her, and she'll show you even more affection.
Compliment your lady often enough, and she won’t be able to keep from feeling more and more sexy with each day. This doesn’t mean that you have to compliment her body alone. You can also tell her how beautiful her eyes or her hair are. You know those quiet moments when you look over and think “man, her butt looks great in those jeans,” or “wow, I love when she shows off her legs”? Stop keeping those thoughts to yourself. Make a point to tell her exactly what you love about her.
When you point out things you love about your wife or girlfriend, she’ll start to feel more confident about herself. Moreover, she’ll really know that you’re turned on by her. Knowing that you want her will make her feel sexier, which means she’ll be more into sex than ever before. You don’t just have to limit your compliments to her looks, either. Let her know that you value her for more than just her hot bod, and she’ll really appreciate it. Tell her how funny you think she is, or how you’re blown away by her intelligence. Women just need to be told things from time to time so that they know you’re still as excited by them now as you were the first time you went out.
Ultimately, flattery really will get you everywhere, as long as it’s genuine. It’s such a simple concept, really. Just tell your lady all of the things you love about her, and you’ll be rewarded with big smiles and hotter sex than ever before.