Few moments are sexier than when you are in full control of her orgasm, making her feel extreme pleasure with just a few expert moves. Women's orgasms last up to three times as long, and seem to be even more intense than a man's. Seeing her out of control with pleasure is one of the best feelings a man could ever have.

1. Warm her up. Turn up the thermostat if the room is too cold. It is much more difficult for a woman to orgasm when she is cold. It is also a lot easier for her to climax if she is wearing socks, so try to avoid removing them. Also be sure to hold her a lot and cuddle with her before you get into bed. Your body heat will be naturally arousing for her.
2. Pour her a glass. Wine will help her lose her inhibitions, and will also help to get her even warmer. Do not try to get her drunk. Wine or champagne are both excellent choices to keep the night classy, but not uptight.
3. Eliminate distractions. Clean your room, and shut off your phone. Background music is optional, but must be chosen carefully. Try some smooth jazz or a light pop mix; violin symphonies will show that you're trying too hard.
4. Use a pillow. In the missionary position, place a pillow under her hips, just above her rear end. This will put her hips at the perfect angle. There are also specially molded love cushions and wedges made for this purpose, but they tend to be bulky, expensive, and difficult to explain to company.
5. Get her on top. Letting her ride on top of you is the fastest way to get her to orgasm. She will be in control of the speed and depth of penetration. Most women prefer quick, shallow strokes, while men get more pleasure from deep, hard strokes.
6. Don't shave. When the woman is on top, she will be grinding her clitoris against your pelvis as a main source of pleasure. Your pubic hair can actually tickle her clitoris in a very pleasurable way. Trim it only as necessary, as it can easily become painfully spiky. Hair conditioner can actually make your pubes softer.
7. Take your time. You've heard it a million times, but that is just because it is so true. The longer you build up, touching her legs and breasts, and going down on her for foreplay, the easier it will be to bring her to her climax. The wait will be worth it. You will cum more and have a more intense climax when you take your time focusing on her. When the time finally comes, you will both explode.

When you give a woman an orgasm, you connect with her on a deeper level. Strive to cum with her at the same time – it is a moment that you will not soon forget.