The holiday gift-giving season is almost here. However, daters beware! Sending the wrong type of gifts can be hazardous to your relationship.
Can you imagine giving a gal that you’ve just met a pair of diamond earrings?  No pressure, right?!  Or the flip side, if you offer that special someone, whom you’ve gotten really close in the past 6 months, a pair of white socks, how romantic is that? The appropriateness depends on the stage of your relationship.
Generally the longer you’ve been dating, the more expensive the gift.  There are some gender differences too.

Guys usually like gifts that are more utilitarian, while women tend to appreciate romantic presents. Here’re some timely gift ideas that will definitely impress!

Less than 3 Months (Just Starting )

Go for light hearted, but sincere.  You’re still getting to know each other. Now is NOT the time to splurge on something grand & expensive. The other person would be in an awkward position if they didn’t get you something similar. You want to come across as thoughtful, not over-compensating.

And if things don’t work out, then it’d be like flushing money down the toilet. If the guy likes to drink, then get him a stylish beer mug set that’d impress his drinking
buddies. Anchor Hocking, a 104 year old company, resonates with class & quality in this category.

$19.99

See’s Chocolate Candies will melt your gal’s sweet tooth. This high end candy maker owned by Warren Buffet will ensure some truly blissful moments.

$29.75

3 – 6 Months (Getting Serious)

Things are heating up. You’re now in a more intense & accelerated stage. Clothing is an intimate item, and could make a great gift!

Women often have a better sense of fashion than men, and are more likely to pick something that will look great! But guys don’t despair. You could enlist the service of a trendy & knowledgeable saleswoman. Or just get a gift card! Then actually go shopping with her to pick out something nice.  That's a very romantic gesture, and will earn you dividend.

Ladies, this Plush Robe is definitely soft & comfy, especially when hugging & cuddling…

$110

Guys, you probably want to take her shopping at this store.

$100

6+ Months (Serious)

Ok, now you are quite serious about one another. It’s time to demonstrate with something fancy & thoughtful.

This Titanium Seiko watch at Macy's is a balance of value & style. He will definitely get plenty of compliements.

$318.75

Gentlemen, better up the ante and get her something really nice like this Diamond Double Heart Pendant in 15K white gold from Blue Nile. If you plan it just right with a romantic dinner, magical things could happen…

$340

The value of the gifts doesn’t buy love. However money sure helps! Yes the economy sucks right now. But your gift sends a strong signal of your investment in the relationship. So do the right thing, and give something that will truly wow!